I believe Arden is going to put up a technical section.
Here's a jump off point, until we get the section together.
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Palace Planet.<<clicky
Tons of guides, manuals, and help, and palaces to visit.
The palace I usually sit at is called 'Flirt'. It's really not a flirt and/or tryst palace, as the users just basically sit and talk about their day. Palaces do evolve according to their users.
I've been sitting at the gate of Zatso and Flirt recently, because you can open two browser windows and be in more than one palace at the same time.